Hello again

After a long break, I'm finally back on this platform. Today was slow and sluggish, and I needed something to cheer me up. I've been thinking about coming back for a while, but today I finally felt motivated to make it a "productive day." So here I am, not much to share, but I wanted to say hi.

If you're having a crappy day too and feeling like everything's pointless, try doing something you've wanted to do for a while. Nothing too far from your usual routine. I did my part, felt pretty good about it, and now I'm hoping to come back more often to share my thoughts.

Signing off.






xoxo
Menan Elsy 

Moving forward

Hey ya'll

It's been a while, a long time indeed. Life has been moving forward, bringing along a few changes. One significant shift is my admission to a Ph.D. program at IIT Guwahati. So, Guwahati becomes my new home for the next few years, while my native state, Manipur, turns into a quarterly retreat. It's just a short flight away, but time and money are the real factors now. They say money can't buy happiness, and it's true, but it can sure open doors to opportunities (as in my case). I'm not saying this because I'm wealthy or not, just gathering tiny pieces for the future. It's about starting something now, so our forties aren't spent wondering where to go. Some have already planned and live the life they want; I'm just beginning.

Wings to fly high

Starting my Ph.D., many asked if it wasn't enough already... Yes, it is! I'm tired, and sometimes I feel like running away from all this. Research is a different experience; amidst frustration and tension, there's also pleasure in pursuing it (hopefully, for me too). Plus, I need this degree to become a professor, which is what I'm looking out for the most. I might not fully endorse further studies, but to those who questioned, it's not just about studying. It's about my life, about not stopping and searching for my path- to the ultimate end of becoming who I really want to be. Most days, I don't know where I want to go, or what I want in life exactly, too many options, but I believe I'll navigate through. And also stopping might mean never getting up again, so for me, a Ph.D. is a step forward, continuing towards the journey ahead. Hopefully, I'll find where I belong and reward myself for the hurdles. If you're like me, never put a break. Do something! And remember to enjoy yourself. What's all the hard work for if you don't find pleasure in what you do? 😜😜😂

All I want to say is we live in a world bound by rules and norms set by mankind, and to survive, we must move forward no matter where we stand. If we never stop, someday, we will reach the top and pay ourselves for the climb.

The climb is challenging, but the view is excellent.

Inspired by a friend who believes in non-stop living our dreams and not being afraid of the failures in progress... 

"Someday, when you reach the top and stand firm.

You won't be afraid of falling down again

Cuz each time you failed, you became stronger 

Someday when you achieve your goal.

You'll receive your blessings and praise.

From those who don't even know your name before." 

By sum_e

I hope everyone will work hard for fruitful success and contentment in life.

All the very best in your future endeavors.

God will help those who help themselves.

Be well ✌

***MenanElsy***

My shit dreams...hhahaha

I want to be everything - an engineer, a fashion designer, a painter, a YouTuber, a photographer, a writer, an actor, a chef, a model, and more. It's not just about escaping to something better. I truly admire these professions, and I want to live in their world, be part of them, and experience life through their eyes. Some may laugh at my many dreams and say it's unrealistic. They might call it greedy to want it all in one lifetime. But the people around me inspire me so much that I can't help but dream big. I've tried to pursue these dreams, but maybe my determination wasn't enough, or maybe life is just too short. I'm just an ordinary girl who loves to relax but also dreams of achieving greatness. I often procrastinate and miss out on things because I'm careless and have a weak mind. But there's still hope inside me. Someday, I believe I'll make it happen. Even if I never reach all my dreams, I'll get as close as I can. Because one day, when I'm gone, it will be my dreams that live on.

Focus on one dream at a time. Once you start making progress, the rest will fall into place.

Keep dreaming. It's not just about achieving your dreams; it's about the journey. Even if you don't reach them all, you'll gain valuable experiences along the way.

I doodled shit :-p hahahhahaa....Sorry!!

 Be Well

***MenanElsy***

The path we pick

Hello,

From my last blog post to today, this might seem like the most hypocritical example in history ever.

A lot has changed, and it feels like I've lost my sense of belonging. And honestly, I couldn't care less about finding my way back to where I should be. Maybe this is just another sentimental cry for attention from someone who seems to hunger for it. But regardless, we all have moments where we just need a little attention and some small talk to calm our wandering souls. And even when we get everything we think we want, our weak minds still aren't satisfied. We're always craving for more. Like my sister always says, human wants are unlimited.

Well, those are some wild thoughts (as always). Apart from that, I've completed my M. Tech, and I am officially a proud Master in Environmental Engineering, a specialization in Civil Engineering. So basically, it's a civil engineering degree, but I prefer to be called an environmentalist! I enjoyed the research, despite the tough times, and hopefully, if luck is on my side, I might continue doing research in the future. I guess whatever path we take, it eventually leads us to where we truly want our lives to lead us. Those who have chosen engineering just as a choice might have an idea. And there are indeed many people with academic degrees in engineering or even PhDs who continue to pursue their passions and follow their dreams. And one day, you'll be known for who you really are - someone extraordinary. We all came into this world for a reason, and yes, we'll be remembered how we want to be remembered.

Do what you do, Never stop dreaming, and Chase your dreams...
"Never give up on something you really want. It's difficult to wait, but worst to regret."

Dream on

Be Well

 ***MenanElsy***

Running a diet to swipe procrastination

Hello,

Are you struggling with procrastination? Well, if you are, then we're in the same boat. Maybe I'm even the worst procrastinator on the planet! I've missed out on so many things just because I felt too lazy to start right away. But today is a new day because here I am, back in the blogging land.

Every time I come here, I always promise myself that I'll stop procrastinating and start writing consistently. But if I'm being honest, I've been doing the exact same thing with my life too, and it seems to get me nowhere. So all my work piles up until I reach the final moment. And let me tell you, one thing that's for sure is that it stresses me out, and the work ends up almost undone. Even if it's done, it's not going to be the same next time. NEVER...!

I've been living my life like this until recently. 

On January 30th, 2016, to be exact, I was browsing YouTube about customizing my journal. It's not a big thing, but yes, I do keep a journal, and unlike most people, mine runs on a monthly basis (just like this blog). Then I stumbled upon this amazing video by Robin Sharma titled "How I Beat Procrastination." It's a must-watch video. It's unfortunate that I hadn't seen it long before. I'm sure most people know him. For those who don't, he's the author of "The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari" (a great book, truly inspiring).

Okay, enough talk. Coming back to the YouTube video, Sharma talks about overcoming procrastination and taking control of your life. The best part of the video is where he talks about the 30-day procrastination diet. And in my experience, it's been going great. I really love the idea behind it. He also talks about visualizing our dreams through pictures and a few other things. Watch it now! For me, writing this blog is also part of the diet.

 I am obsessed with all thing bright and colorful  (typical me) So for my chart I have added stickers and personalized it (its quite attractive now unlike the plain boring chart) Paste it on your wall or your journal anywhere where you will see everyday just so that you don't forget to run the diet! 

 I hope you will try too and I am sure it will help you.

 Procrastinate procrastinating- Now!!

Stay Active and Motivated

 Be Well

***MenanElsy***

Happy New Year 2016

Hello dear

Hey there, I'm back! After my vacation last year in 2015, I've returned in 2016. Ta-da! You know how I always like to pretend to be busy (as usual). But this year, I'm feeling hopeful. Maybe 2016 will be a year of consistent blogging for me, with no more procrastination along the way (though I've already started that this year).

Well, every year brings its own set of memories, but 2015 was particularly special because of my sister's wedding. I mentioned it in one of my earlier blogs before I left for vacation. She's incredibly happy, and seeing her like that makes me happy too. If you have sisters, you'll probably understand the feeling I'm talking about.

In my mind I always recall myself the quote "Marriage are  made in Heaven so are thunders and lightening". Not that I am offended by marriage but the quote always struck me whenever there is marriage word. I have seen many couple along my lifetime each one having their own unique ways. Like for the nearest my mom and dad. I have seen them quarrel and its not like they grudge over it for long. Eventually they forgive and forget and watching my sister and my brother in law, I felt like life is like a heaven for them.
Mom and dad are also happy for them. Obviously!
And so is everyone else. My sister now partially belongs to them. Of course, they can never have all by themselves. I am gonna  keep her with me. huhu.. selfish me!
Anyway, 2015 was a great year for me and I hope 2016 will be better. And I pray and wish everyone a great healthy and awesome wonderful year.

Stay Safe

Be Well

***MenanElsy***

Just me!

Hey there! 

It's been a while, hasn't it? I've been doing okay. Had my 3rd-semester presentation recently. It went pretty well, though my supervisor wasn't totally satisfied. But you know what? I was happy with myself, and that's what counts, right? Sometimes, it's important to prioritize your own happiness before pleasing others. Sounds selfish, I know, but taking care of yourself first can actually benefit everyone around you in the long run.

Anyway, enough about that. I'm super excited because I'll be heading home soon for winter vacation, and this time it's going to be extra special because my dear sister is getting married! Yep, wedding bells are ringing. It's going to be a mix of emotions for me this year.

Sorry if this post sounds like a diary entry! I just felt like sharing what's been going on since it's been a while since my last post.

By the way winter is here and beds and blankets are becoming your cozy zone. So enjoy the vacation sweet pies.

See you in few days if possible hihi...

Ciao!

BE WELL




***MenanEsy*** 
 

Visiting The Water Palace "Neermahal"

Helo dear,

Many people enjoy traveling and exploring new places, relishing the fresh atmosphere and environment. They often say the best part is the journey itself—the roads they traverse. I'm no exception; I get thrilled about visiting new destinations. However, unlike others, I'm not a fan of the journey itself. I have this travel phobia thing going on! (or maybe it's just motion sickness; I'm not sure.) I become a completely different person while traveling. Strangely, as soon as I step out of the daunting journey (which, according to my own experience, not everyone has), I return to my usual self. Yeah!! The same thing happened when I visited Neermahal (The Water Palace).

The Water Palace ("Neermahal")

Just when I step out of the vehicle and saw the place, the water, the cold air breeze, the far image of the palace melt away my dizziness!. The fact that we have to ride on a boat to go the palace was one attractive thing I love about it. And when we finally we reach inside the palace, even though it was still on renovation, entering inside the palace gave a soothing calm and royalness. I felt like a princess walking though the hallways.

It was indeed a memorable and a wonderful experience along with my friends. We had a great time.

Photo Courtesy: R.D.Franco & Pooh

Yet another awesome place to visit if you ever come to  "Agartala"

BE WELL

***MenanElsy***

Brighter Diwali

Festivals always brighten our lives and Diwali, the festival of light, one of the most auspicious and much celebrated festival in India has indeed brought happiness in my life. Yet another year of celebration added up in my memory land. Besides visiting Neermahal, I had a great time with my friends, lighting candles burning crackers and the most important of all, it has lighten the dimming light in my life. 

Hope this Diwali has brought new hopes and brighten up your lives.

BE WELL

***MenanElsy***

Welcome Winter

Hello dear,

So, November 1st marks the start of chilly winter. Though I'm not a big fan of winter, I do enjoy the fresh start of a new season. My blog's title suggests that each day holds something special, and sometimes we just need a reason to believe it. Lately, I've been feeling a bit down, missing home. Ten days of Durga Puja vacation wasn't enough to satisfy my longing for the familiar warmth of home, especially with my sister's upcoming wedding adding to the nostalgia. Family love is irreplaceable; no matter how far we go, they remain our constant support. Yet, I'm grateful for the family I have here – my friends. Love you, people <3 <3. . They fill my life with companionship, erasing loneliness and making me feel at home. With their love, the gloomy season doesn't affect me much; brighter days are ahead!

All I say is love yourself and love the ones around you. Every one of us is family, and we are all related somehow somewhere. It's just a matter of how far we look into the family tree.

With all the love, here's to a better start to days; happy winter, folks!! 

BE WELL

***MenanElsy***

The True Success Story

Hello, lovelies,

Today, I attended a lecture by Dr. G from Howard University. He's probably in his early 70s or even older. Originally from India, he's now a citizen of the USA, or at least his children are. He spoke about how to publish your research work. His introduction caught my attention—he started his career in India, did his M.tech in IIT Bombay, and later pursued his Ph.D. in the USA, where he settled down. It fascinated me how an average Indian student like him ended up making a name for himself in the west.

As Dr. G shared his experiences, I couldn't help but imagine myself sharing my own stories with an audience. I love listening to people who've gone from nothing to achieving extraordinary things. I guess you could call me an "inspirationoholic," if there's such a word. I often make up my own vocabulary! The only problem is, my inspiration usually fades faster than a baby's emotion.

We've all seen people rise from scratch to the top with patience and hard work. Success is never overnight; it takes time. Sometimes, people might earn a lot but still feel unsuccessful in other aspects of life, like spending time with family. In today's world, it often seems like earning money is all that matters, but that's not always the case.

In my opinion, success starts with loving what you do. If you're not passionate about it, even completing a task successfully might not feel like true success. Consistency and dedication are also crucial. Keep doing what you love, even if success seems slow. And most importantly, have faith in yourself. If you believe in what you're doing, success will follow. As they say, "picture Abhi Baki hai mere dost"—the big picture is yet to come.

I completed this dove origami with love, consistency, and faith in myself. That turns out to be wow in my eyes.

Every person has his own theory of success. This is something I feel that a person looking for success should consider along with all other success mantras, or you can just do what your heart wants. What can I say? I am just an ordinary girl inspired by Dr. G and continuing her blog.

So until next time
BE WELL

***MenanElsy***

Amidst the Maturity

Hello Love,

The Lazy blogger is back! Well, I can't totally blame myself for being lazy because I've been thinking a lot about what to write... I just couldn't bring myself to type it out. Pretty pathetic, huh? Also, I've gotten really good at making lame excuses! But seriously, I was a bit busy with my project. Okay, enough excuses. Let's continue...

So, I go to class—or rather, I have to go work on my project, whether I feel like it or not. Gone are the days of going to school, studying a bit, playing a lot, and having tons of fun. Nostalgia hits me hard. Unlike PhD students who work alone and late into the night, one good thing about doing a Masters is that you still have friends to hang out with and have fun. We're in this weird phase of life where we're neither kids nor adults. In some countries, most people our age are already grown up, with jobs, marriages, and kids. And here I am, writing a blog and complaining about it, which I'm not even good at. While our parents expect us to get high-paying jobs and settle down, I still love having fun and sometimes acting like a kid. What's wrong with that? Nothing! Or maybe something's wrong with me. I'm clueless!

When I was little, I used to wonder how adults handled things and worked so systematically. Twenty years ago, I never imagined myself sitting here thinking about it. I probably didn't even know there were people outside my house. Now that I'm grown up, I still don't feel like an adult. Physically, we all grow up and do things that make us seem like adults. But mentally, I still feel like a kid at heart. Sometimes, certain situations make me wonder if I've really grown up to the age I imagined myself being twenty years ago. Sometimes, I notice my parents and their friends doing things that make me think about being a kid again. I'm sorry if that's offensive. What I'm trying to say is, from the moment we're born, we start growing and learning, but our core remains the same throughout. Twenty years from now, we'll probably feel the same way.

Life happens, we grow up, but our minds stay young. Many of us learn new things that make us act like we know what's going on, but deep down, we all fear the consequences. It's knowledge and experience that guide us in dealing with the situations life throws at us.

I asked a few friends about this, and guess what? They feel the same way. Of course, different people have different feelings. I'm not a psychologist, nor am I researching this topic. It just popped into my head, so I wrote it down.

We are never too Old

In Photo: S. Singh, B.Debbarma, J. Maulong. PC: S. Mallik

 All I learn from what I feel is that, this world is a complex mixture of knowledge so are our capability to think or feel. And what is wrong in feeling like a kid once in a while. If we want to have fun and enjoy life we must. This doesn't mean we have to start our life from a kid's perspective, we must see and apply to the situation.
Anyway, what Age have to  do with having fun! After all we are all God's Children. And we are all young and wild by HEART!

Enjoy every moment and live Life

BE WELL

           ***MenanElsy***                   

Being a Friend - Treasure of a lifetime

It's been a while since I last wrote. I've been busy with work and battling a cold. But I'm here now. I wanted to write on Friendship Day to honor all my amazing friends I've met on this journey through life. Every day feels like Friendship Day with them, right?

I'm lucky to have a bunch of awesome friends. I can't describe each one here, but they're all so wonderful in their own ways. My world revolves around them. Did I mention how beautiful and handsome they are? They really are. I wish I could insert a proud face emoji here. I uploaded a collage of some of them, but this space isn't big enough to capture them all.

According to the dictionary,  a friend is a person who you know well and who you like a lot, but who is usually not a member of your family. But to me, the word 'Friend' feels like family. It's like a whole world of different people with the same spirit coming together to make the universe better. Everyone has friends, whether they're parents, siblings, teachers, classmates, or even enemies—anyone we've shared a moment of our lives with.

We've met so many people, each teaching us something about life, even strangers. Sometimes, we distance ourselves from people who are different from us, only considering those who help us as good friends. But everyone has their own life story, and they're a part of ours, just as we're a part of theirs. We shouldn't judge them based on how they treat us. Someone might be rude to me but a darling to someone else, and vice versa. We can't expect everything from one person.

As we journey through life, we'll encounter negative people trying to pull us off course. But that's okay—it makes us stronger and teaches us survival skills. We don't have to stoop to their level. Just be good, do good, but if they push too far, stand up for yourself! And forgiveness is key in friendship. We're all different, so disagreements will happen. We're not perfect, but that shouldn't stop us from welcoming new friends into our lives.

Friends are the companions on our long journey through life. "A journey is best measured in friends rather than miles," says my coffee mug. We should appreciate every person in our life.

As I've moved through different phases of life—from home to primary school, high school, and college—my circle of friends has grown. I've always been the crazy one in the group, but with them, I can be myself. They don't judge me; they listen to my endless chatter, knowing how dramatic I can be.

My first friends were my siblings and cousins. When high school ended, I missed them terribly. Thanks to social media, we can still keep in touch. And when my master's is over, I'll miss the friends I have now. We'll stay connected, but our conversations might become less frequent. That doesn't mean their part in my life is over. Each one has a big place in my heart.

Time and circumstances may drift us apart, but when we're old and gray, reminiscing about our carefree days, we'll still feel young at heart. Or maybe I'll be an old lady telling my grandchildren about my amazing childhood friends and the memories we made. They'll be so jealous!

So, this blog is for all of you. I may not be great at putting my feelings into words, but in my heart, there's endless space for my friends. I'm so thankful for each and every one of you. My life wouldn't be as colorful without you. I love you all. <3 <3

Love is to Friend and Friend is to Life

 

BE WELL 

And also, I would like to pay my gratitude to one of the greatest man of India, Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam, and Former President of India. I wasn't fortunate enough to meet him but his quotes have always inspired me. His word have always motivated me. We lost a great man! But his presences will always be felt as long as there is humankind.

                                                            ***MenanElsy***